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Life Beyond Therapy: Cheaters

Dear Michael:

I never thought it would happen to me, but here I am, in a relationship with a cheater.

I didn’t know he was sleeping with other guys, but I started to notice too many things that were weird and he then started being extra nice to me in a way that made me wonder what the hell was going on.

Anyway, I found out, confronted him and he admitted it. The problem is: What do I do now? Do I forgive him? How can I trust him again? He swears he won’t do it again, but can I believe him?

I’m tempted to leave him but he’s begging me not to. He said he’d even go to counseling (which is a big step for him). What should I do?

—Boyfriend’s a cheater

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